The Best Of African Stories

ASK-VAL!

Val your blog is really growing fast, keep it up, but i have a question i want to ask our friends, so post this without my username please….

I’m in my 200level in Lasu and i have a girlfriend who is also in the same level with me, and we started dating last year, but till now we haven’t had s-x, because she doesn’t agree, and i don’t even know whether she is a virgin or not, because she always gets angry if i ask her about it, please does it mean that she dosent like me, or does it mean that she may be doing it else where?? How do i go about it??ou

Share Button

Coolval22.com

33 thoughts on “ASK-VAL!

  • tutusaint

    You have been dating for a year without s*x???
    Unbelievable; how have you guys been expressing love to each other???
    It time you and her do a little honest talk to each other. Its either she doesnt love you or she is just playing you for what ever she will gain from the relationship.

  • Ijebaby

    Relationship is not only about s-x and sometimes we overrate it for nothing.

    What I don’t get is why she cannot be honest with you about herself. After a year I am sure she must have grown to trust you with whatever the issue is. Her getting angry when you bring it up is not the way to act cos that will only breed contempt.

    If you cannot go on with the relationship without s-x stop deceiving yourself and let her go. You might only end up cheating on her which will lead to a messy break-up.

    If you can go on without s-x then do but she should be able to give you her reasons. It might be a bad experience she wants to forget or she doesn’t love you and is all about what she’s getting from you.
    You can only find out by talking even if it ends in a fight at least you tried.

    • Legendprac

      I concur

    • tochi

      @ijebabe ¶ kind of support the points u made but ¶ believe these days gals sleep wit a guy if they are getting something out of the relationship and to be able to maintain it nd not for love..so for her to refuse him her honeypot either means she is not gaining anything or she is bidding her time or she is really in love wit him or like u said she must have had a bad experience wit it before

  • fitzfrankses7

    Coroborating Ijebabe,communication and trust makes any relationship with or without s-x.Be honest and reasonable with your feelings and expectations, likewise her and if she doesnt want to be then it is best you moved on and not kept stalled!

  • Blachberrydude

    @ijebabe i support you

  • Blachberrydude

    Or he didnt ask nicely

    • tochi

      @blackberrydudu н̲̣̣̣̥
      o̶̲̥̅̊
      w̶̲̥̅̊
      do one ask for s*x nicely

  • brilly

    hmmm…like ijebabe said relationship is not all about s-x, secondly the two of you should sit on a round table and state your terms and condition. like my girl and i, no k---y cat fusion till after marriage but that one no mean say i no dey engage in other activities with her *winks* Then after the terms and condition if they don’t suit you, QUIT! No invest for where no sure for you man. As it looks she is after your money or intelligience, etc use your tongue count your teeth. THEY ALWAYS SAY “IF YOU KEEP YOUR BODY FOR YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND, I KEEP MY MONEY FOR MY FUTURE WIFE” NA DRAW-DRAW 😀

  • Damex333

    They av said it all.

  • Tochi2

    Guy take her out on sunday. after some talk ask her why she no they give you honeypot hahahah

  • Izuone

    I go with ijebabe on this one. She is hiding something.

  • VicJ

    She is After sometin else. Why she go dey vex, explain urself u moda fvcka.

  • Petokey

    Ijebabe on point

  • tochi

    So all this buhahaha is just cos of s-x well my bro if she no fit give you find it outside to save the relationship cos it seems she is stingy wit her p---y

  • tochi

    @topic first of all as we already know relationship is not all about s-x cos it tends to reduce love if there is any..secondly ¶ think what he should do is to sit her down and have a heart to heart discussion wit her make her to trust you to always be there for her and to know that no matter her past experience is, no matter н̲̣̣̣̥
    o̶̲̥̅̊
    w̶̲̥̅̊
    bad that she can over come it, tell her that u are willing and ready to wait for her no matter н̲̣̣̣̥
    o̶̲̥̅̊
    w̶̲̥̅̊
    long it takes ( oboy say this if u are getting it outside, if not conji go destroy your face) and finally open a healthy communication line wit her and always make her feel wanted and ¶ think wit time she will give in to you without u asking

  • luisina

    @ijebabe,I support your points…..s-x shuldnt b a priority in a relationship till d ppl involved r married 2 each oda…

    In my own opinion,since d gal is reluctant in tellin u if she’s a V or not,I’m guessin she’s hidin sumfin nd mayb she doesnt realy like u so she cant tell u stuffs abt herself.I’m sure u’ve asked her oda personal questions nd she declined givin u ansas

  • Izuone

    But why will i be in sexless r/ship for a year plus

  • Izuone

    Can love really keep me in such a r/ship ?

    • brilly

      yes bros, depending on your principles…like me, am a big badt guyz, my friends wey dey bleep dey fear when i dey talk but am i big V. those are my principles…same with my girl, so it’s possible.

  • Izuone

    May be while i was still a virgin,but now not even for three months

  • Damex333

    Izukwu alot of people loves sexless relationship.

  • Damex333

    Atleast i do,i prefer d sexless 1 dan d sexfilled 1.

  • Damex333

    Guy i will tell u 2 try and ask her y she don’t want s-x,mayb she has a very cogent reason,but if she can’t open up 2 u. Let her knw exactly how u feel,if she can’t trust u enuf 4 her 2 tell u wats happening,i dnt think she deserves u.

  • Blachberrydude

    if there is no s-x in relationship then am out

  • Blachberrydude

    guys wise up ooooo girls of nowadays they are unpredictable oooooo

  • Blachberrydude

    i cant just sit down and she will be demanding from me @the end no se.x thts bullshit i be wood, i gat blood running in my veins.

    • brilly

      ha! na that one i no follow, NO S-X, NO DEMANDS…i give at will, period. You can hardly see a girl that doesn’t demand this days, but they exist. And when you see one, bros hold am tight 😀

  • Blachberrydude

    girls sha

  • Blachberrydude

    no cash no s-x

Leave a comment

Copyright © 2017 Coolval22.com All Rights Reserved. BBM : D885B13B 

See How To Advertise Disclaimer: Every Coolval22.com member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Coolval22.com
Skip to toolbar